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Karen-Nicole's avatar

read a chapter or so of a novel. currently re-reading The Stand (uncut), sooooo. Or some nonfiction if feeling that instead. When really tense, I will listen to a 30 - 60 min recorded meditation. know this helps me wake up like I just came from vacation.

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

I love this! I have never been able to meditate that long, I always end up falling asleep, haha! Well done you!

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Karen-Nicole's avatar

if you fall asleep, that's okay and that's what you needed. let that sleep be your meditation.

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

😭😭😭 thank you so much, this a beautiful reflection.

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Sophie Thomas's avatar

I try to read before bed. The only problem with that is that sometimes I get too into the book I'm reading and then I end up eating into my sleep...

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

Haha! I feel thisssssssssssss! I simply cannot be trusted.

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II's avatar

I think of things I’m grateful for. I might play a sleep story before I close my eyes to sleep.

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

This is beautiful! Do you have a set number (e.g 3 things) or do you just let your heart and mind lead you?

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II's avatar

I let my heart and mind lead me and then I really focus on one of them. I do a mini body scan so I can really try to imprint that gratitude before I sleep. Next time I experience that thing, I often have a good feeling about it. Then I repeat that. A little conditioning, if you will.

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

This is so beautiful and mindful and intentional. Thank you for sharing this with me, I am going to try this 🧡🧡🧡

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jackie.buxton's avatar

For me, as often as possible, it’s reading a book in the bath. That is my ultimate luxury, one behind that is just reading a book and way behind that is when I spend all night thinking that I’ll be able to read when I just... and then it doesn’t happen 😔🙈

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

Ahhhhhh love this! Are you a "one book at a time" person or are you one of those folks I am amazed by who has multiple books on the go at any given time?

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Jackie Buxton's avatar

Ahhh, I often have two on the go but ONLY if one is print and the other is on Audible - and even then I sometimes have to remind myself which story I’m in 😆 Audible are for when I’m cleaning (and other mindless tasks…) though, it would have to be a paperback in the bath or it just wouldn’t work ☺️

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

This actually all makes perfect sense to me. The perfect combo!

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jackie.buxton's avatar

Works for me! How about you?

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

I am a one book at a time girl. I wishhhhhhhhh. I don't use Audible though so this could be the new way to do it!

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jackie.buxton's avatar

😆😆 But seriously, I definitely manage more books since discovering Audible, sometimes even clean for longer... if it’s particularly gripping 😝 Definitely with a try, Lauren x

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jackie.buxton's avatar

Sounds like you made a great change, Lauren - restorative AND productive. What’s not to love?!

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

Thank you so much! It took a lot to get there, but once I did there was NO turning back!

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Jackie Buxton's avatar

Brilliant! I know a LOT of people who need to follow your lead…

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

OKAY very important information request! WHAT ARE THE BEDTIME SNACKS?

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Karen-Nicole's avatar

Need to know : )

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lauren deborah | they/she 🌈🐆's avatar

OMNOMNOM! Perfect!

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