Dwarling, I am here to tell you that dreams can come true. After 8 years of fairly wretched singledom I sat myself down and thought about what I really wanted in a partner. I did a little self-invented ceremony by the light of the silvery moon and I MOONIFESTED him. Just a few weeks later he fell slap bang into my life thanks to the kindness of a neighbour who set us up on a blind date. He's everything I wanted, and as per your writings, my favourite times are early mornings in bed, with coffee and pillow talk. We got married on the day before the UK went into lockdown and shall I tell you what our secret is? We live apart during the week and see each other Friday evening to Sunday evening. PERFECT. It is out there for you, I can feel it in my bones - Jxx
I just freaking adore you endlessly. Remember when I said you were iconic? Here we go again!
You have given me so much joy in this perfect balance you have found. I feel (as do so many) this pressure to fit what relationships "should" be and if I had that, I know how unhappy I would be because it is just not the right fit for me and what I want in life.
I am thrilled to hear this, and love to hear more and more of people setting their own rules (or lack thereof) when it comes to creating a life that involves someone else, and finding a way to never lose yourself in the process.
This was a beautifully sweet listen. Thanks for sharing your dreams (and love of wake up calls, slow mornings and alarm clocks: same).
I am often astonished at how much solitude has helped me be a better friend to myself.
"better friend to myself" made me tear up. Perfectly put, thank you sweet friend 🧡
Dwarling, I am here to tell you that dreams can come true. After 8 years of fairly wretched singledom I sat myself down and thought about what I really wanted in a partner. I did a little self-invented ceremony by the light of the silvery moon and I MOONIFESTED him. Just a few weeks later he fell slap bang into my life thanks to the kindness of a neighbour who set us up on a blind date. He's everything I wanted, and as per your writings, my favourite times are early mornings in bed, with coffee and pillow talk. We got married on the day before the UK went into lockdown and shall I tell you what our secret is? We live apart during the week and see each other Friday evening to Sunday evening. PERFECT. It is out there for you, I can feel it in my bones - Jxx
I just freaking adore you endlessly. Remember when I said you were iconic? Here we go again!
You have given me so much joy in this perfect balance you have found. I feel (as do so many) this pressure to fit what relationships "should" be and if I had that, I know how unhappy I would be because it is just not the right fit for me and what I want in life.
I am thrilled to hear this, and love to hear more and more of people setting their own rules (or lack thereof) when it comes to creating a life that involves someone else, and finding a way to never lose yourself in the process.
Thank you for sharing, wonderful woman 🧡