Impressed always by the variety of topics you cover & then the intricate level of detail on something that had never crossed my mind or never thought about π
Opening your Substack is like a lucky bag of surprise & fun! Love it L π₯³
And someday youβll have your love story Iβm sure of it β¨
Zac Efron is not in love with me? Iβm sorry LD but... I think youβre wrong!
I wanted to tell you I guess Iβll just do it here : I went on a lovely date the other day (lovely lovely) BUT kept thinking, if they try to just as much as hold my hand, Iβll freak out. They didnβt β¨. Helped me picture the future when (one day) Iβll be willing to it.
Also made me realise that all these βromantic scenariosβ in real life are my worst nightmares π
Ah movies...yeah romantic plots still confuse the life out of me. I cannot understand the clear stalking behaviour, the obsession with the someone you met eyes with across the room, the...well, the everything, really. It took me the longest time to figure out the reason this never made sense is because my brain is just wired completely differently!
But also. Just. So much stalking. Wtf is with all the creepiness??? If you tried that shit on me irl you'd be facing the police in a hurry!
Being demisexual is frankly way better than dealing with all those other things.
Also another fave - raising an eyebrow at the oh so sad character who hasn't had sex in months. MONTHS!!! As I sit there and count up the solid 8yrs I went without sex or romance or dates or anything.
I will make a note about the songs thing though. Just because I know you love cute stories about me and Cuddles. When we first got together, we lived a couple of hours apart, so in order to see her in person I had to set my shifts to cover 4 days so I could go visit for 3 days. In the evenings when I was done with work, we'd do stuff together online, and one thing we just enjoyed doing was sending each other songs.
What Cuddles didn't know was that I saved them all into a playlist to play at our first anniversary, and later our wedding (with some additions).
Ps. that magic secret door for the win in life π
Right?! LOOOOOOOOOVE! π§‘
Impressed always by the variety of topics you cover & then the intricate level of detail on something that had never crossed my mind or never thought about π
Opening your Substack is like a lucky bag of surprise & fun! Love it L π₯³
And someday youβll have your love story Iβm sure of it β¨
Thanks so much Lou! You are so kind!
I have my love story, I am the love of my own life and I wouldn't have it any other way π§‘π§‘π§‘
Zac Efron is not in love with me? Iβm sorry LD but... I think youβre wrong!
I wanted to tell you I guess Iβll just do it here : I went on a lovely date the other day (lovely lovely) BUT kept thinking, if they try to just as much as hold my hand, Iβll freak out. They didnβt β¨. Helped me picture the future when (one day) Iβll be willing to it.
Also made me realise that all these βromantic scenariosβ in real life are my worst nightmares π
Also this story is a) very relatable and b) delightful. Thank you for sharing it here π§‘π§‘π§‘
YOU AND ZAC ARE THE EXCEPTION!
Ah movies...yeah romantic plots still confuse the life out of me. I cannot understand the clear stalking behaviour, the obsession with the someone you met eyes with across the room, the...well, the everything, really. It took me the longest time to figure out the reason this never made sense is because my brain is just wired completely differently!
But also. Just. So much stalking. Wtf is with all the creepiness??? If you tried that shit on me irl you'd be facing the police in a hurry!
Being demisexual is frankly way better than dealing with all those other things.
Also another fave - raising an eyebrow at the oh so sad character who hasn't had sex in months. MONTHS!!! As I sit there and count up the solid 8yrs I went without sex or romance or dates or anything.
I will make a note about the songs thing though. Just because I know you love cute stories about me and Cuddles. When we first got together, we lived a couple of hours apart, so in order to see her in person I had to set my shifts to cover 4 days so I could go visit for 3 days. In the evenings when I was done with work, we'd do stuff together online, and one thing we just enjoyed doing was sending each other songs.
What Cuddles didn't know was that I saved them all into a playlist to play at our first anniversary, and later our wedding (with some additions).
Also, the original cast recording of this was our first dance song. I feel like you'll appreciate it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XWfOd-SAGh8
I was so excited for your take on this and it did not disappoint!
"Being demisexual is frankly way better than dealing with all those other things." YESSSSSSS!
Hahah, I'm glad I didn't disappoint π