Ah the trap of independence. It’s something I’ve had to work on for a few years now. This quote from Dr. Brené was a kick in the pants that I needed, I’m sharing because it helped me.
“ When you judge yourself for needing help, you judge those you are helping. When you attach value to giving help, you attach value to needing help. The danger of tying your self-worth to being a helper is feeling shame when you have to ask for help. Offering help is courageous and compassionate, but so is asking for help.”
I can't relate to this at all.😂 You're doing so well and headed in the right direction for yourself! xoxo
Ah the trap of independence. It’s something I’ve had to work on for a few years now. This quote from Dr. Brené was a kick in the pants that I needed, I’m sharing because it helped me.
“ When you judge yourself for needing help, you judge those you are helping. When you attach value to giving help, you attach value to needing help. The danger of tying your self-worth to being a helper is feeling shame when you have to ask for help. Offering help is courageous and compassionate, but so is asking for help.”
“Let’s go, gently into the creaminess” is my new mantra. Much 💜
You cannot have Noel Fielding, he's mine x